Jennifer
NLP Practitioner, International Professional PCC in training, Akashic Reader, mind-body-spirit enthusiast, enjoys self-exploration, awakening life potential
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First Position: Self Perspective, which means looking at things from one’s own standpoint. -
Second Position: Other Perspective, which means viewing things from another person’s standpoint. -
Third Position: Neutral Perspective, which means observing interactions from the observer’s angle. -
Fourth Position: System Perspective, which means viewing things from the whole system or relational domain.
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Self Position: Ask the client “What is the current situation? What are your feelings? What are your true needs?”
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Other Position: Invite the client to think from the other person’s perspective, for example, “If you were your colleague ***, how would you view this matter? What are your feelings? What are your inner needs?”
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Neutral Position: Invite the client to adopt a neutral position and ask, “If there were a camera recording your interaction, what would you see? What would you feel? What insights would you gain?”
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Within System Position: Ask the client “How do other colleagues in the team view this matter? What is the impact of this matter on the team? If you were the company owner, how would you see it?”
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Outside System Position: Explore perspectives outside the team, “How do you think colleagues outside your team view this conflict? What might clients think?”
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Past Position: Review past experiences, “What past experiences can help you resolve this issue?”
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Future Position: Look ahead, “How will you view this matter in a year? What advice would you give to your current self? In the long run, what does this matter remind you to learn?”
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